There are a group of demons who’s main focus is to keep everyone so uncomfortable around each other until no one helps anyone. They literally jump from one person to the other arguing with themselves within our bodies, while laughing at how easy it is to control both people.
Take a look at your arguments and study the patterns of the repetitive conversations that you are having with others. Are you just repeating the same things over and over in stressful conversations and arguments? Nothing changes because you are caught in a demonic cycle.
If you also take note of how often it happens, you might notice that there is a pattern of the time of peace in between these arguments or heated discussions. It’s like a planned visit from your local witch. You are stuck in a cycle of madness with another person. Now, is this person benefiting from these arguments? What I mean is, do they control your emotions easily with the same repetitive conversation that doesn’t seem to upset them as much as it upsets you? To be fare, you both are victims but the demons are using a controlling desire from one or both of you.
If it works, demons will repeat their controlling moves over and over again. As long as you both stay stuck with no growth in that part of your life.
For example, demons could be using a weakness of jealousy or hate to control your emotions with certain people. Once you notice the patterns, the demons will know that it’s almost over. They may try to add a new or older element that worked before to keep things going if you are becoming wiser to their tricks. All of these spiritual tactics are used to manipulate the minds of both parties of the argument but if one of you get spiritually smarter you won’t be so easily manipulated by the invisible devils.
To conquer this captivity you have to really be honest with yourself. Are you jealous and do you want to control the person who you are arguing with? Jealousy is scary for some to face about themselves because they don’t want to be that type of person but if you don’t, you have to honest with yourself so you can catch the behavior in yourself when it happens.
Controllers just want to always win. They have to be on top of they feel like a failure and that feeling makes them feel less than and weaker than the person they argue with. These emotions are all from demons who have taken over your thoughts and emotions. You have to get to know yourself better so you will know when you, yourself are acting out of character of who you are supposed to be. If you have to win every conversation without truly understanding what the other person is trying to say, you are controlling. Even if they are wrong about what they say, you still have to want them to speak their true mind so the argument of disagreement can be settled and never reborn.
This is where forgiveness comes in. Forgive others for hurting you, misunderstanding you, trying to control you, being jealous of you…and let them know that you felt that they were doing these things but you forgive them. Even if they never admit it and even if you are the one who misunderstood them, you still need to forgive what you thought they thought of you. Then forgive yourself for not have the patience to listen to them and forgive them earlier. Forgive them and yourself for everything. Start new with a new perspective of expecting the best out of people until you see the worst. When you see the worst, forgive and forget, pray for them and maybe stay a distance from them until they realize what type of person they have become. You don’t have to abandon, just feed from a long handled spoon for a while. Do not expose yourself to pain and slander and manipulation any longer. Just forgive and feel sorry for their soul and pray for your fellow brothers and sisters so they can be free of those demons one day soon.
Conclusion:
- Find the patterns of timing and conversation types that bother you when talking to certain people. These patterns will help you realize which buttons are being pushed and why. Try to explain these patterns to the other person even if they seem to not understand at that moment. It will stick to their minds like a seed and grow with the power of the Holy Spirit.
- Realize that demons are involved with trying to keep you both divided from each other so neither of you can truly help the other. Explain that you refuse to entertain that type of argument any further by removing yourself or plugging your ears after explaining in a gentle tone that you will have a full discussion about it at an appointed time. Never have that conversation with them again until they are ready to have a calm conversation where everyone can say their whole mind.
- If what they say is painful to you, brace yourself to forgive what they say. The demons will use them until they can’t so some of the things they say may be used by demons to hurt and restart the argument. Remember their real love for you and remember that demons may still be in them while they are talking.
- When you begin, to express yourself, first apologize for anything that you have said to hurt them on purpose or by mistake. Tell them that you love them and forgive anything that they may have said to hurt you or anything that you may have misunderstood from them. Tell them about your hurt so their love and pity will rise up for you. Don’t try to be right, just explain your point of view and try to understand theirs. If you don’t understand them, just let them know that you hear what they are saying and whether you agree with them or not, you respect their right to say what is on their mind.
